Relationship Tests

From a new crush to a long-term partnership: science-informed self-checks for how you love, attach, argue, trust and repair.

Love Patterns & Attitudes

How you fall, invest and commit — from the light love-struck check to the clinical love-addiction screening.

Love-Struck Quiz

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A 20-question quiz measuring how love-struck you are across 4 dimensions — over-investment, anxious preoccupation, idealization and boundaries — with a 0-100 index and profile.

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Romantic Possessiveness Index Test

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An 18-item self-reflection test across emotional reactivity, anxious worry and controlling behavior; get your 0–100 Romantic Possessiveness Index with dimension insights. Free, no sign-up.

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Love & Social Psychological Safety Index Test

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An 18-item self-check of how safe and secure you feel in love and in social settings. Get your 0–100 Psychological Safety Index with two dimension scores and gentle insights. Free, no sign-up.

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Love Language Test

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Discover your primary love language and understand how you express and receive love.

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Love Attitudes Scale

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Explores your approach to romantic relationships based on six different love styles.

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Love Tester

Love Tester is a light-hearted online game that helps you discover how compatible you are with someone special.

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True Love Recognizer

Free 20-signal relationship test across respect, trust, responsiveness, equality and commitment — see your green lights and attention lights.

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Love Addiction Test

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A 28-question self-screening for chronic love-addiction patterns across relationships: 7 dimensions, a 0-100 pattern index and clear guidance. Research-informed, not a diagnosis.

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Fisher Temperament Inventory - Love Personality Test

Based on Helen Fisher's temperament theory, discover your love personality: Explorer, Builder, Director or Negotiator? Free, instant results.

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Love Pawsona Oracle

Draw your Love Pawsona card for playful love guidance — 18 animal spirit cards with insights for singles and couples.

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ABM Love Personality Test

Answer 24 romance scenarios and meet your love animal out of 32 types — with a love motto, mental age and best matches. A Kuakua-original, entertainment-oriented quiz.

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Attachment Styles

The research backbone of modern relationship psychology: how you bond, and why distance or clinginess shows up under stress.

Couple & Relationship Quality

Validated instruments for ongoing relationships — satisfaction, trust, communication, conflict style and the division of daily load.

Dyadic Adjustment Scale (DAS)

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Take the Dyadic Adjustment Scale (DAS), a validated 32-item measure of relationship quality developed by Spanier (1976). Assess dyadic consensus, satisfaction, cohesion, and affectional expression. Free self-reflection.

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Relationship Assessment Scale (RAS)

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Take the Relationship Assessment Scale (RAS), a 7-item validated measure of relationship satisfaction. This free self-reflection tool helps you reflect on your overall satisfaction with your romantic relationship.

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Trust in Close Relationships Scale

Assess trust beliefs and behaviors in intimate interpersonal relationships.

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Conflict Resolution Styles Inventory (CRSI)

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Take the Conflict Resolution Styles Inventory (CRSI), a 16-item validated measure of how you handle conflicts in close relationships. Reflect on your styles: Positive Problem Solving, Conflict Engagement, Compliance, and Withdrawal.

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Communication Patterns Questionnaire (CPQ-SF)

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Take the Communication Patterns Questionnaire – Short Form (CPQ-SF), an 11-item validated measure of couple communication patterns during conflict. Reflect on demand/withdraw patterns and constructive communication.

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Relationship Satisfaction (PN-SMD)

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Assess positive and negative satisfaction dimensions in intimate relationships.

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Mental Load Quiz - Couples Edition

Take this free Mental Load Quiz to discover what share of household cognitive labor you carry. 21 questions, instant results, based on peer-reviewed research. No signup required.

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Risk & Repair

Red flags, jealousy, breakups and the habits that keep you over-giving. Honest checks for the hard parts.

Sex & Intimacy

Values, attitudes and boundaries around physical closeness — where intimacy beliefs meet personal history.

Why take relationship tests?

Relationship tests turn vague feelings into concrete patterns. They help you tell whether a rough patch is situational or the repeat of a longer-running pattern, show how your attachment style shapes your reactions, and reveal where a relationship strengthens your life — or quietly strains it.

Patterns, not verdicts

Good instruments describe recurring patterns — anxious checking, blurred boundaries, one-sided giving — so you can work on the pattern instead of blaming yourself or your partner.

A shared language

Results give you and a partner (or a counselor) a neutral vocabulary for what is happening — usually the first step toward changing it.

These tests are self-reflection and screening tools, not diagnostic instruments. If relationship distress feels heavy, please consider talking to a qualified professional.

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