
ATM-er
The ATM
“Do you think I'm made of money?”
Zeldzaamheid
Slechts 3.2% wereldwijd · About 1 in 31 people
✦ Persoonlijkheidsinterpretatie
You don't literally hand out cash, but you're always paying — in time, energy, patience. Like an old but sturdy ATM: what goes in is other people's anxiety, what comes out is the reassurance "it's fine, I'm here."
Kerntoestand
Giver personality — yes to every request
Kenmerkende uitspraak
“No problem, I'll do it!”
Levensbeeld
Friend needs money? Sure. Colleague needs help? Sure. Family needs you? Here. And you? Never mind — other people first. Your sense of existence is built on being needed.
✦ Sterke punten
- ·Helpful and dependable
- ·Strong sense of responsibility
- ·The steadying presence on any team
- ·Understanding and considerate
✧ Zwakke punten
- ·Doesn't know how to refuse
- ·Often ignores your own needs
- ·Easily taken advantage of
- ·Gives so much it exhausts you
15-dimensieprofiel
5 modellen × 3 dimensies = 15 dimensies
Self Model (S)
I'm useful
Self Model (S)
Knows your role: the tool
Self Model (S)
Being needed is value
Emotion Model (E)
Finds security in giving
Emotion Model (E)
Wholeheartedly kind to others
Emotion Model (E)
Can't leave others, and others can't leave me
Attitude Model (A)
Everyone's pretty decent
Attitude Model (A)
Maximum cooperativeness
Attitude Model (A)
Helping others is meaning
Action Model (Ac)
Other people's business is my business
Action Model (Ac)
Help others first, then talk
Action Model (Ac)
Says it, does it — especially to others
Social Model (So)
Replies to everyone who reaches out
Social Model (So)
On standby at all times
Social Model (So)
It's fine, I'm here
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